I Was a Skeptic, Then Life Happened

Look, I’m gonna be honest with you. I used to think online learning was a joke. Back in 2018, I was at a conference in Austin, and this guy—let’s call him Marcus—was going on about how online courses were the future. I laughed in his face. Literally. I mean, who needs a screen when you can have a real, live human teacher?

Then, life happened. My job at the magazine got crazy. My committment to my local gym? Gone. My social life? Basically nonexistent. And my last-ditch effort to learn Spanish through night classes? Failed. So, I did what any stubborn, late-30s editor would do: I gave online learning a shot.

Week 1: The Honeymoon Phase

Alright, so I signed up for a course on creative nonfiction writing. I thought, “Hey, I write for a living, this’ll be easy.” Spoiler: It wasn’t. The first week was a breeze. I watched the videos, did the readings, even participated in the discussion forums. I felt like a kid in a candy store. But then…

But then reality hit. Week 2 rolled around, and suddenly, I had to write an actual essay. And not just any essay—a personal one. About my life. Ugh. I sat there, staring at the blank screen, thinking, “What have I gotten myself into?” I texted my friend Dave, “I think I made a mistake.” He replied, “Toughen up, buttercup.” Thanks, Dave.

The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Let’s start with the good. The flexibility was a game-changer. I could log in at 11:30 PM if I wanted to. I did. Alot. The bad? The lack of accountability. There were 214 people in my course, and honestly, I felt like a ghost. The ugly? The tech glitches. Seriously, who designed this platform? It was like using a computer from the ’90s.

But here’s the thing—I finished the course. And I didn’t just finish it; I completed all the assignments. And you know what? I learned a thing or two. About writing, sure, but also about myself. Turns out, I can be disciplined when I need to be. Who knew?

What I Learned (Besides Spanish)

First off, not all online courses are created equal. Some are amazing, some are trash. You gotta do your research. Check out a software review comparison 2026 if you’re not sure. And don’t just go for the cheapest option. You get what you pay for, folks.

Second, you need to treat it like a real class. Set aside time each week. Don’t just do the readings. Participate. Ask questions. Be present. And for the love of God, turn on your camera during live sessions. It’s awkward, yeah, but it helps.

Third, find a study buddy. Or a study squad. Whatever you wanna call it. Having someone to keep you accountable makes a world of difference. I had a colleague named Sarah who was also taking an online course. We’d meet up for coffee at the place on 5th and talk about our progress. It was weirdly motivating.

A Digression: The Great Debate

Now, I know what you’re thinking. “But Sarah, what about the lack of face-to-face interaction?” Honestly, I’m not sure but I think it’s overrated. I mean, sure, it’s nice to have a professor physically present, but let’s be real—most of us are just staring at our laptops during lectures anyway. And the forums? They’re basically group chats with extra steps. Plus, you can revisit them anytime. Try doing that in a traditional classroom.

But here’s the thing—I’m not saying online learning is for everyone. It’s not. Some people need that structure. That physical presence. And that’s okay. But for those of us who are busy, or live in remote areas, or just prefer learning at their own pace? Online learning is a lifesaver.

Final Thoughts (Or Lack Thereof)

So, there you have it. My honest, unfiltered take on online learning. It’s not perfect. It’s not for everyone. But it’s a tool. And like any tool, it’s only as good as the person using it.

Oh, and one more thing. If you see Marcus, tell him I owe him an apology. And maybe a beer.


About the Author: Sarah Thompson has been a senior editor at various publications for over 20 years. She’s a self-proclaimed tech skeptic who’s slowly coming around to the digital age. When she’s not editing, you can find her attempting to learn Spanish or failing miserably at gardening.